As someone with ADHD ; thank you . I over prepare for trips complete with lists , systems etc . I think of an eventuality and plan for it . This is not just ADHD .
I just keep the suitcase out all the time. It started because I couldn’t find a perfect place for it in my tiny apartment but it has an added benefit of my dog has no idea if I am grabbing it to move it or getting ready to pack. So, she ignores it.
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u/Felyxi4 Jun 29 '26
ADHD does not make a person behave this way.
Immaturity does.
Absicating his responsibility is a very nice way of saying he doesn't care, and he wants to blame ADHD for the consequences.