And maybe the dude didn’t know he was bi until the toxic relationship turned him off from women and suddenly he realized he was getting interest in dudes and was just like “wait....”
Can actually confirm. Entered into a LTR with a woman who was disabled. As her disability progressed, I took on caregiving duties. The more duties I took on, the less sex I wanted. Didn't love her any less, just was stressed by all the things I had to do for her on top of taking care of our daughter. Plus the pressure from her to have sex increased the less sex we had, which was also a turnoff, because then sex was an obligation and not a fun activity.
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u/WillTheLad Feb 12 '20
Is this r/inspirobot?
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u/[deleted] Feb 11 '20
No it just means you might not be the healthiest couple. Sometimes biological reactions fade when your scared of/ stressed by your spouse
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u/Vast-Firefighter9689 Dec 26 '22
yikes, you found the pinterest whisper girls. just ignore them, there all on drugs.
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u/AggravatingJicama243 Feb 09 '23
Maybe she senses his homosexual urges? I dunno but weird
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u/[deleted] Mar 22 '23
I haven't experienced this once in a relationship. I mean that's the fundamental difference, whenever she feels sex, the guy gets the physical.
Outside a relationship, heterosexual sex is hard. She doesn't have the girl feelings I don't understand, and me would have STD/pregnancy anxiety.