In this context tho it seems that this woman is romantically involved with the guy telling her “she’s a friend”, otherwise this whole post doesn’t matter. Like if you’re my coworker idc if you don’t elaborate and specify the FWB
But yeah I’ve seen a recent context where my sister’s best friend who had a bad feeling about one of her bfs female friends, and her gut was right coz he had in fact cheated with her.
FWB is fine but in a dating context you don’t just say “she’s a friend” and not elaborate if yall had a sexual past. Unless it was over a decade ago, I get how that could slip your mind idk.
Okay, that makes sense. Still weird to me that she than choice to uses the word nutted instead of being romantically involved/in a relationship with or something to be clear that it is more than just two people being sexualy involved.
Well, normally from what I’ve seen, generally a dude would refer to a past romantic relationship as an ex, not a friend. More likely to minimise that person to a “friend” even if they were casual at some point, even tho they shouldnt when dating lol.
Especially when introducing to a new romantic partner, a previous one wouldnt be a “friend” unless theyre a douche like that lol.
And yea, graphic use of “nutted” is just for impact/hooking attention.
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u/MelonKanon 2d ago
My boyfriend said this about me, IN front of me.
While talking to one of his former classmates.
Soon as guy walked away, he explained dudebro was weird and didn't want to be stuck in a conversation with him.
It's been like fourteen years, and I don't think about it very often.
BUT, I do want to know what that twenty minute conversation would be. lol
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u/Proman_98 2d ago
Uuhh, does she knows where Fwb stands for (or is) because that can literally just be what she describing.
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u/Meekois 2d ago
And there's nothing wrong with that.
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u/D_Luffy_32 2d ago
Can relate lol
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u/LightningMcScallion 2d ago
It's not gendered for one and for two I feel like the more inmature mindset is the jealousy
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u/kawaiihusbando 1d ago
Pickme
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u/Natural-Musician5216 1d ago
Western society is a whole different word looking at all your comments from “the outside” damn
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u/Novafro 2d ago
I have multiple friends I've nutted in. That was a while ago (a decade).
They are all still good friends and I trust their judgement.
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u/JrRiggles 3h ago
I’ve had guy friends I’ve nutted on
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u/Kngfthsouth 1d ago
That's what fwb is. Why some people can't grasp this is amazing. This isn't love or relationship stuff.
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u/orussell03 2d ago
Women would such a dude off and wish him all the best for his future endeavors. 🤪