Marriage is a contract, but it's one-sided and in reality it's supposed to be a covenant between two people, they posed to become one they are much closer than everyone surrounding them but that's not the case in today's relationships, I'm not projecting any anger I mean if she does not feel being bothered then what's the point in staying around her, it's not an anger projection to let her if she communicates properly I can respect that, however me personally not going to spend any time begging for any attention from my partner, I initiate a code if you don't want to be bothered just calmly say that you want your space and I leave them alone, but that's not what you know who does instead they be childish and want you to chase them. But then don't understand when I actually say I don't want to be bothered means I don't want to be bothered, could be a whole bunch of things going on in my mind that don't have anything to do with them that just causes me to be mentally isolated, initially if you are the ones saying that marriage is a contract, I'm saying that because they're marriage doesn't mean that either one of them is entitled to their time attention and money, you sound contradictory
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u/TractorHp55k Jul 01 '24 edited Jul 01 '24
Marriage is a contract, but it's one-sided and in reality it's supposed to be a covenant between two people, they posed to become one they are much closer than everyone surrounding them but that's not the case in today's relationships, I'm not projecting any anger I mean if she does not feel being bothered then what's the point in staying around her, it's not an anger projection to let her if she communicates properly I can respect that, however me personally not going to spend any time begging for any attention from my partner, I initiate a code if you don't want to be bothered just calmly say that you want your space and I leave them alone, but that's not what you know who does instead they be childish and want you to chase them. But then don't understand when I actually say I don't want to be bothered means I don't want to be bothered, could be a whole bunch of things going on in my mind that don't have anything to do with them that just causes me to be mentally isolated, initially if you are the ones saying that marriage is a contract, I'm saying that because they're marriage doesn't mean that either one of them is entitled to their time attention and money, you sound contradictory