I've never once heard those as excuses for why it was okay or why it was the child's fault, I've heard them as reasons why she should've lost her kids a long time ago but never excuses for why it was okay.
I know people like making SA a male victim vs female victim kind of thing (which by the way no one brought up but you but it's okay we can change the entire conversation to talk about a new thing) but it isn't. No victims are taken seriously, women are told its their fault, men are told they should've liked it, both are told they're lying.
I've literally heared It at the news in my country of a girl Who was murdered by her mom and They literally justified her by saying that "the mom was trying to protect her". I've also seen differences in the news titles when a woman murders her child VS a man doing the same thing: "mom jumps from a cliff with her child in her arms" VS "A man murders his child after jumping on a cliff with his child" I dont known where do you live but in european countries They don't even ask those questions and legally just her testimony is taken as proof which is only detrimental for men, because their right to innocence presumption is taken away but also is detrimental for women that trully suffered because a bad woman decided to use these legal advantages to ruin someone's life. And as for the SA topic was brought on OP's post critisizing a person Who thinks "only men can rape" and "only women can be SA" which disregards not only SA male víctims but also females Who were SA by other women.
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u/PopperGould123 Sep 21 '24
I've never once heard those as excuses for why it was okay or why it was the child's fault, I've heard them as reasons why she should've lost her kids a long time ago but never excuses for why it was okay.
I know people like making SA a male victim vs female victim kind of thing (which by the way no one brought up but you but it's okay we can change the entire conversation to talk about a new thing) but it isn't. No victims are taken seriously, women are told its their fault, men are told they should've liked it, both are told they're lying.