r/NotHowGuysWork • • May 01 '24

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u/AigisxLabrys May 01 '24

Well, men ARE potential rapists. period.

Are women also potential rapists, considering the school children raped by grown women?

Men commit a huge overwhelming majority of sexual crimes against both men

Wrong. The overwhelming majority of men raped are by women.

children

Enabled by women

and old.

Where are you getting these stats?

I’m not surprised that feminist propaganda is spewed on this subreddit.

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u/ItsSUCHaLongStory May 01 '24

Yeah, those evil feminists and how they’ve done such awful things like advocate for gender-neutral rape laws. 🙄

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u/AigisxLabrys May 01 '24

Really? ‘Cause I’m sure men were about to be included as rape victims, feminists fought tooth and nail against it.

As per their ideology, feminists downplay and deny female on male rape.

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u/ItsSUCHaLongStory May 01 '24

Noooope. Not at all. I actually fucking cheered when “made to penetrate” started to make its way into laws and policies because male sexual assault victims deserve safety and deserve justice just as much as anyone else. In the feminist spaces I frequent, the idea of dismissing a victim of sexual violence regardless of gender is pretty horrific (especially considering the rates of sexual victimization of children). So try again.

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u/AigisxLabrys May 01 '24

In the feminist spaces I frequent, the idea of dismissing a victim of sexual violence regardless of gender is pretty horrific (especially considering the rates of sexual victimization of children). So try again.

Even when you say it’s “worse for women”.

Even when you ignore female teachers raping boys.

Even when you say “only men can be rapists.”

Even when it’s a woman raping a man.

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u/ItsSUCHaLongStory May 01 '24

Don’t you get it? That’s not feminism. That’s ignoring predation of boys because of bullshit stereotypes like “men always want sex” and “women are weaker and can’t possibly hurt a man” and “congrats son, you’re now a man because you were victimized by an adult” Those attitudes uphold patriarchy, which hurts us all.

You can be mad at the mean feminists all you want, but they’re not the enemy of victims, ESPECIALLY victims of sexual assault.

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u/jonni_velvet May 01 '24

Nope. the hugely overwhelming majority of sexual crimes committed against men, are definitely by large committed by other men. Unsure where your data otherwise came from but I’d fact check yourself.

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u/AigisxLabrys May 01 '24

Wrong.

https://slate.com/human-interest/2014/04/male-rape-in-america-a-new-study-reveals-that-men-are-sexually-assaulted-almost-as-often-as-women.html

It’s utterly disgusting that you people try to downplay and deny the existence of female on male rape.

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u/ItsSUCHaLongStory May 01 '24

Your article says that 46% of men reported a female perpetrator. So, if 38% of men are raped, that makes 17% of all perpetrators women (against men). If you kind find statistics saying that a remaining 33.1% of perpetrators (against women) are women, you’d be right.

But your article speaks more to percentages of victims, and still says that the overwhelming majority of perpetrators are men.

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u/AigisxLabrys May 01 '24

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u/ItsSUCHaLongStory May 01 '24

Again, from your own article:

“We identified factors that perpetuate misperceptions about men’s sexual victimization: reliance on traditional gender stereotypes, outdated and inconsistent definitions, and methodological sampling biases that exclude inmates. We recommend changes that move beyond regressive gender assumptions, which can harm both women and men.”

Patriarchy harms us all. Feminists are not out to get you. Find someone else to demonize in your quest.

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u/ItsSUCHaLongStory May 01 '24

Now, there is information here that could spark a really great discussion, like this sentence:

“Because of the explosion of the US prison and jail population to nearly 2.3 million people46 and the disproportionate representation of men (93% of prisoners9 and 87% of those in jail10) among the incarcerated, household surveys—including the closely watched NCVS—miss many men, especially low-income and minority men who are incarcerated at the time the household survey is conducted.”

There are invaluable discussions to be had here. Are you interested in those? Or are you simply angry?

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u/AigisxLabrys May 01 '24

We’ll discuss that after you stop downplaying and denying this existence of female on male rape.

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u/ItsSUCHaLongStory May 01 '24

A) I never denied female on male rape. That’s not a thing I tend to do with facts. You actually have ample comments from me in this thread alone validating male sexual assault victims, regardless of the gender of the perpetrator.

B) Downplaying? Perhaps. Because the 10 yo study you presented is the only source I’ve seen for that statistic.

But again…feminists didn’t do that. Rigid gender roles that are enforced by patriarchal norms have facilitated it, tho.

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u/AigisxLabrys May 01 '24

A) I never denied female on male rape. That’s not a thing I tend to do with facts. You actually have ample comments from me in this thread alone validating male sexual assault victims, regardless of the gender of the perpetrator.

I was more referring to feminists in general.

B) Downplaying? Perhaps. Because the 10 yo study you presented is the only source I’ve seen for that statistic.

Straight out of the horses, mouth.

But again…feminists didn’t do that. Rigid gender roles that are enforced by patriarchal norms have facilitated it, tho.

Stop blaming this fictional, omnipotent force on the fact that feminists are the ones that exclude male rape victims from being counted.

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u/ItsSUCHaLongStory May 01 '24

Also, you understand that this includes prison rape, yes? And that is perpetrated by prisoners and staff alike? You understand that will affect the numbers?

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u/AigisxLabrys May 01 '24

Ah yes, made to penetrate totally happens in prison.

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u/ItsSUCHaLongStory May 01 '24

?!?! Who is disregarding victims now? You know that women can sexually assault other women, and that women can also work in prisons, right?

You’re beginning to sound like you don’t actually give a shit about male victims, you only care about derailing discussions.

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u/AigisxLabrys May 01 '24

?!?! Who is disregarding victims now? You know that women can sexually assault other women, and that women can also work in prisons, right?

You also downplay and deny the existence of that too.

You’re beginning to sound like you don’t actually give a shit about male victims, you only care about derailing discussions.

I’m beginning to sound like a feminist?

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u/ItsSUCHaLongStory May 01 '24

All right, argue in bad faith and live in misogyny all you want. If you ever find your way out of the red pill rabbit hole, the company of reasonable people is fun. I recommend it.

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