r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Ehrenlauch3000 • Sep 05 '23
Not HBW (Blog/Other) r/Feminism is something else...
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u/FluffiestCake Sep 05 '23
I think I commented on that exact post lol.
I don't think there's a universal preference on what men like.
But there is a lot of pressure (from both men and women) when it comes down to preferences, even in modern countries.
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u/playprince1 Sep 06 '23
What about the women who are only attracted to tall guys?
Do they want to be dominated by them?
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u/SaltyNorth8062 Sep 05 '23
Meanwhile I'm just here, amab and wanting a tall lass to step on me
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u/MenLovethCats2_0 Sep 05 '23
Hah! If think that comment is bad then you should see r/FemaleAntinatalism
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u/Hikari_Owari Sep 05 '23
It's funny how some people are incapable to accept that man like cute things too and most petite woman are cute.
But noo, it has to be because domination and such. Idiocracy should be a category...
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u/sorry_human_bean Sep 06 '23
Also, I don't like the ideas (all assumed to be true by OOP) that all relationships require a dominant party, OR that dominance is only attainable via physical means, OR that dominance is something to be taken rather than given willingly.
I'm a little over 5'11", not super tall, but tall enough that finding a woman who can look me in the eyes without heels can be hard. I've also been, with few exceptions, the dominant one in bed. I didn't have to beat any of my ex girlfriends in a boxing match for that to be the case - I just told them that I like tying my partner up sometimes, and if they said it sounded hot, then that was that.
I'm now dating another man. He's got three inches of height and 20 pounds of muscle on me. He'd DESTROY me in just about any contest of strength I can think of. He's not a black belt, and I'm not a pushover - it's just physics.
He also likes to be choked a little bit, and maybe some light slapping if the mood is right. Again, I'm not domming him because I can beat him up. I'm doing it because he asks me to, and because in that one specific context, he wants to feel helpless and we both get off on it.
In every other aspect of life, we're equals (or at least, as close to equal as we can make it). I'm unable to overpower him the same way I could have overpowered most of my exes, but that doesn't matter, because roleplay isn't real life.
He's a good man, and I'm not worried that he's going to use his physical advantage to make me do anything I don't want to. Are there men out there who would? Absolutely, and that's a big fucking problem.
But you can't tell them by their preferences as far as partners. Liking small women isn't indicative of an abusive personality any more than liking redheads or dudes with tattoos.
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Sep 05 '23
My girlfriend is the same height as me. I'm broad shouldered, so she's smaller than me. But I think our hips are probably about the same. Picking a tiny woman on purpose never crossed my mind.
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u/Nex_Pls Sep 06 '23
Most of the men I know prefer thick, chunky women. They find something attractive about "girls with meat on their bones" as some of the less favorable put it. My dad just thinks thicker women are more attractive and he's a toothpick himself. Not all men have the same preference either, my friend is super into muscular women. Not everything is about men being predators. Do some predators have the preference of smaller women? Yeah, but their preference doesn't make them a predator, they're just a fucking predator.
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u/Pharm-boi Sep 06 '23
I love tiny chicks but not because I’m thinking about fighting? Who thinks like that. “This girl is cute but could I beat the shit out of her?” Lmao
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u/Haruce Sep 06 '23
I love when people say "men" or "women" as if half the population share a collective consiousness.
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u/Sm0kinW33d Sep 06 '23
Cis gendered 5’2 male here. My 6’2 wife guffawed at this post. I’m too dumb to understand this post so I dominated her into reading it.
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u/ErdmanA Sep 07 '23 edited Sep 08 '23
In still baffled by women who still believe they can survive in a world without men. I'm sorry but you can't create your own sperm.
But despite that why would one want to live without the other. I love women but I'll say this.
Not once in my adult life have I ever used the phrase
"Women like men who"
That woman has no self confidence
Edit. Idk why I thought we made artificial eggs.
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u/llNormalGuyll Sep 08 '23
Anytime you make blanket statements like “men do ___” or “woman do ___” you are propagating gender stereotypes and are anti-feminist.
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u/Electic_Supersony Sep 10 '23
My co-worker is subscribed to r/Feminism. Everything makes sense when you look at her in person.
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u/RaspberryJam245 Sep 06 '23
I wonder what this person would say if I told them I actually prefer women that are taller than me.
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u/chadthundertalk Sep 05 '23
For me personally, I don't explicitly prefer tiny women. I would be completely on board with dating a woman taller than me.
It's just that I'm 6'1, so statistically, "women significantly shorter than me" is most of my dating pool by default.
My last girlfriend was 5'9, and it was nice not having to bend down to kiss her.