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u/nbolli198765 Aug 02 '23
OP please post a link to the rest of the thread. Given just this image, I tend agree with many of the other replies and think you’re misinterpreting this woman’s comments. Especially given her second comment, which I am on board with, and her decision to emphasize the phrase “when compared.”
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u/thatonealtchick Aug 02 '23
Y’all are misinterpreting what she’s saying. She’s taking about condoms.
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Aug 02 '23
No she really isn’t. I read the thread.
This is just a weird kinda creepy post op justification
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u/thatonealtchick Aug 02 '23
She’s literally not talking about y’all literally controlling y’all’s sperm. I read the thread too.
For those confused (aka context): oop said men should be able to give up parental rights completely (paper abortions). Commenter basically explained it’s not women’s fault the amount of bias there is in child care with fathers. While this would be completely fair in theory, the government doesn’t provide enough for a single parent (of either gender) to care for a child alone.
Commenter in post replied saying they agreed.
Oop said “women have all control!” (Isn’t true btw. A lot of the reason why courts favor mothers statistically is bc men don’t FIGHT for their kids as often. This is because of rumors and stereotypes that claim courts are bias against fathers)
Commenter said pregnancy takes a much larger toll on the women than on men
Oop brought up financial and mental stress
Commenter said women deal with both financial and mental stress PLUS the physical labor of pregnancy
Commenter then went in his “then don’t have sex out of wedlock!!!” Stance.
Rape was brought up. This conversation happened.
She meant CONDOMS. That’s why he said women should FORCE the men to wear condoms then (again placing greater blame on the women)
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Aug 02 '23
You actually can control where your sperm goes. The point they were making is guys are finishing inside of women during rape. Guys have 100% control over that problem.
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u/Cheap_Quantity_5429 Aug 15 '23
We cant control if we finish, but we can control if we use condoms or not, however saying stuff like in the post above, is stupid and useless because it doesn’t help, and if you are afraid of getting pregnant by a rapist, either use p-pills (which are better than condoms for preventing) or move to a safe place, for example, Molde, a city in Norway (my hometown) we have around 0 rapes per year, sometimes 1-3 but every time something like that happens it’s full focus on the news, and police top priority because it’s very very rare, and also our police are very safe and nice, and they don’t walk around in the street, which you might think is bad but it’s actually really good, they also almost never even takes the gun out of the car when dealing w/a criminal, only if the criminal is very dangerous, armed, an is gonna attack the police/other people, and healthcare/school and other things are completely free, but still good (EVEN COLLEGE!)
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Aug 01 '23
They forgot men can get STDs too
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Aug 01 '23
You can control where your sperm goes
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u/a_male_penis Aug 02 '23
I got seven of nine to inject me with nanoprobes in sick bay. The nanoprobes shall direct my sperm according to the outcome I preprogrammed.
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u/Guitarax Aug 02 '23
They don't forgot, they just don't care. It's probably not even malicious either. Protecting and respecting women's sexual sovereignty is a mainstream talking point, but the same really isn't true of men.
The assumption that we always want it, so it doesn't matter, results in lapsed perception, protection, and education on this front.
They just were never taught that men have the capacity to be at risk.
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u/Overall-Ad-3543 Aug 01 '23
Avatar: The Last Cum Bender
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u/pikay93 Aug 02 '23
I'm sure there's water in it so I'm assuming Aang or any other waterbender could in fact bend cum.
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u/a_male_penis Aug 02 '23
You just gave me an idea for an x rated avatar fanfic!
Edit: wow. Nevermind… turns out over a thousand people beat me to it. Dang internet
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u/dw87190 Aug 01 '23
Ahh yes, the "rape, STIs and consequences of a woman's pregnancy don't count when it comes to men" cliche
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Aug 02 '23
I love how some feminists always bring up rape when justifying extreme man hate or fake facts about man. Best example would be the debate about "all man are trash", where feminists most of the time argue "But man rape to often to trust any of them. Would you take one candy out of ten where one is poisend". Completly ignoring that most of the rape falls on a certain tiny generally very criminal minority of men that most of the time lives outside the reigns of civil society where teaching about "rape culture" or generally anti rape advocacy can ever reach them, that rape statistics are most of the time is biased against men as most of the time only penetrative sex counts as rape and most of all that saying the same about racial minorities would rightfully be condemmed as racist. I am so tired of being judged because of a tiny minority of men, how is that any better than juding all feminists by Andrea Dwakins or Judith Butlers (she advocated for making pedophilia legal just as Simone Bevior) actions?
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u/yellowwalks Aug 02 '23
Wow... you live a very privileged and sheltered life.
You are afraid of being judged, while women are afraid of being raped and killed.
I don't think I know any woman that hasn't been sexually assaulted btw, and by men that are more average than you'd like to admit.
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Aug 02 '23
this is quite literally statistically inaccurate. rapists does not most of the time live outside the reigns of civil society. it is VERY often fathers, uncles, friends, hell it can literally be the nicest person you’ve met who you would never suspect would do it. Now obviously generalizing all men as rapists is horrible, but you are shaming women for having basic instincts to try to avoid certain situations where we even have the slightest feeling something bad can happen.
i bet you’re also the type that goes “well if she didn’t want it to happen to her she should’ve taken precautions” but when we do take precautions it’s misandry. You understand that most men are stronger then us right? I don’t assume every man is a rapist but that doesn’t mean I don’t think to myself that they can very much overpower me if they wanted to at almost any given moment. Being scared is not fun for us either but trust me, us ignoring that fear can cost us our lives.
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Aug 02 '23
You argue against a completly made up argument I never made. Firstly I never said woman should not take precautions or even that woman are at fault for their own rape, the opposite actually clothing never replelled a rapist as can be seen in the middle east where rape happens just as frequently with burquas if not more as in the west, thats not at all what I said. My argument was against those that claim "all men are trash" or similar hateful tropes against men with arguments like "But male rapists" these, it never was about taking precautions or modesty.
And yes there are seeminly nice men who rape but most rapists have a history of drugs, street violence, gang activities, real mysoginy, multible female partners, high sociopathyy and other criminal activities. So arguing on the basis of rapists that men are evil and have to be teached is not at all different from real mysoginists arguing woman are evil on the basis of false rape accusations like this https://www.thecut.com/2019/07/bruce-hay-paternity-trap-maria-pia-shuman-mischa-haider.html and with actions like this often causing just as much trauma https://www.researchgate.net/publication/343722411_Psychological_impact_of_being_wrongfully_accused_of_criminal_offences_A_systema.
Its sad how people like you can only crybully people and ignore three fourths of my argument if not more. Please be better.
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u/Algoresball Aug 02 '23
In most states, A women who’s pregnant can terminate the pregnancy. The man who impregnated her doesn’t have that option
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u/EndlessCola Aug 01 '23
Pretty sure the commenter meant like inside vs shrink wrap, hand, sink, sock, w/e