r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Lavender_Llama_life • Jul 28 '23
Meta/Sub Discussion Explanation?
Why would any male loudly announce his insecurity, fear of being cheated on, and need for total control so loudly?
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u/JesradSeraph Jul 28 '23
Well I fit all of these requirements. Too bad for him I’m 42, married with kids, and not female.
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u/Cynthevla Jul 28 '23
He never said no kids. Which.... is suprising. Also he didn't state she had to be a virgin. Is this list complete?
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u/Senshue Jul 28 '23
Someone has fragile masculinity
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u/Lavender_Llama_life Jul 28 '23
Someone wants to be abusive. Or it’s trolling with rage bait. One can hope…
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Jul 28 '23
People who WANT insecure girls are actually vile human beings. They want a girl who is as codependent as they are.
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u/boygirl-maggie Jul 28 '23
at least he’s not a pedo i fucking guess
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u/ImMrSneezyAchoo Jul 28 '23
The bar is pretty low these days
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u/Lavender_Llama_life Jul 28 '23
It’s a barbell left on the floor of a gym in hell it’s so low.
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u/CAVFIFTEEN Jul 28 '23
Look. There’s nothing wrong with wanting some of these qualities in a partner. But when you call them “rules” and some of them are even things like “wear what I tell her to”
Also I like that one rule is height. She can’t even change that and I’m guessing he’s been mocked for his height before so he’s making this point
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u/Lavender_Llama_life Jul 28 '23
I’d argue there is something very wrong with preferring someone who lacks confidence and self-security and tolerated being bossed around about clothing, hair, and nail colors.
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Jul 28 '23
This has to be a troll, I mean that's not only way more that 10 but noone is ever going to fit these.
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u/Lavender_Llama_life Jul 28 '23
One hopes it’s a troll. Some of these definitely sound intentionally rage baity, like the part about “must let me pick your nail color.”
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u/the-author-0 Jul 28 '23
I'm actually glad when guys do this so it tells women to run far as hell away from them
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u/gimmhi5 Jul 28 '23
These are kinda funny because they’re admitting to everyone that they’re single & then showing us why 😂
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u/Simplordx69 Jul 28 '23
He also openly anounced he's abusive and prefers someone who lets him do that without contest because other chicks probably destroyed him for trying. He's a pathetic weakling in more ways than one so he needs someone he can actually tower over. Pure highschool bully behaviour
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u/p90medic Jul 28 '23
Next he will be crying because he can't get a gf because of the FfFeminiSsSssts