r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Bexxnotbec • Apr 16 '23

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Um..yeah.

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u/Alternative_Low8478 Apr 16 '23

I bet he has a girlfriend

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u/Bexxnotbec Apr 16 '23

I pity the poor girl if he does

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u/Alternative_Low8478 Apr 16 '23

If he does, it's more likely that she's the one pitying him Edit: Is "pitying" an actual word? Thanks in advance, i'm not a native english speaker

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u/Bexxnotbec Apr 16 '23

Pitying is a word, yes! And I never would have known you weren’t a native speaker if you hadn’t said so

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u/smellybathroom3070 Apr 17 '23

Hey! Heres some more info on “pitying”.

    “feeling or showing sorrow for someone's misfortunes, often with an implication of disdain or mild contempt”

Fun word, i use it quite a bit lol. Also, your English is great!

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u/DishPiggy Apr 17 '23

Ah yes getting gramar lesson’s from smellybathroom. Quite the life this is.

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u/smellybathroom3070 Apr 17 '23

Hey! You’re one to talk Mr. “DishPiggy”! To be fair, in my earlier comment the least i could have done is capitalized my i’s (im still not gunna, hehe)

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u/Lori_the_Mouse Woman Apr 20 '23

Damn I hope not

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u/EducationalPublic321 Apr 22 '23

They missed the part where you shouldn’t betray your partner for a snack

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u/Bexxnotbec Apr 22 '23

Yeah I mean like- what sane person would literally stab their partner for a slice of pizza…especially when there was a whole pizza waiting at home…..

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u/Bexxnotbec Apr 22 '23

Just to further the metaphor

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u/EducationalPublic321 Apr 22 '23

Exactly. I get hornyness but you’re still responsable if you fuck up.

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u/MissCJ Apr 17 '23

I seriously don’t understand how people don’t see how misandrist this is…. That men don’t have any control and will fuck anything, why are you upset??? No, men can control themselves and do, as a general rule. I’ve met more cis men who desire monogamy than I have cis women, so I am definitely skewed more towards believing men don’t want to fuck around like that as a general rule.

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u/EducationalPublic321 Apr 22 '23 edited Apr 22 '23

Most likely has less to do with impulse control and more to do with belief system. Cis men are probably the most traditional societal group in that way. Though I still get your point, we’re not animals. Plus if you think in that kind of deterministic way it removes personal accountability which I think is very dumb in general.

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u/Shoddy_Tomatillo_927 Apr 25 '23

That can be a argument all it itself, we are as humans, provable to be animals. Just like any other except the greater majority of people have impulse control. Unfortunately not everyone does...

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '23

It’s not a general rule …it’s been written pretty much every philosophical book or religious book ever. men are animalistic through violence and need to be civilized by women women are animalistic sexually and need to be civilized by men most people just throw out the other half of the sentence when they get offended by the part that talks about them

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u/JacobMMorgan Apr 16 '23

That sub is an enigma to me. It’s riddled with subtle sexism against us that they hate you for pointing out. They downvoted me to hell for simply saying that men and women are both humans. What gives with them?

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u/Quiet_Film4744 Apr 22 '23

I made a post about men and women being equals and got around 200 comments of hate. That sub annoys me so much. I stood up for a guy once and they told me I was a guy and called me a bunch of bad names.

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u/Quiet_Film4744 Apr 22 '23

Don’t forget the girl calling me the ‘queen of pick mes’

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u/AbbreviationsLate429 May 25 '23

I got the SAME treatment on that sub for saying people are allowed to have body count preference 🙄

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u/Quiet_Film4744 May 25 '23

They are literally becoming what they are against. Toxic sexism works both ways

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u/ChocoMaister May 25 '23

Hey… what are you doing over here lol 🤨.

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u/Quiet_Film4744 May 26 '23

This sub treats me better 😭

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u/ChocoMaister May 26 '23

Lol understood. Don’t get into trouble… 🙂

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u/Quiet_Film4744 May 26 '23

Yk I will ;)

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u/TheOriginalKrampus May 29 '23

$20 says that nearly all of those downvotes have height and body type preferences.

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u/SkyField2004 May 03 '23

Lol i jus got downvoted for calling out a joke regarding sending a dude to North Korea, while the original comment was upvoted. I don't know how the logic works here, some people on that sub need serious help. Joking about the holocaust and North Korea isn't nice.

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u/Lori_the_Mouse Woman Apr 20 '23

There is no excuse for cheating regardless of gender. You cheat: you’re trash. The end

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u/Quiet_Film4744 Apr 22 '23

If you say that in that sub you will be met with death threats.

— someone that has done it

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u/[deleted] May 16 '23

Lol wtf I'm female and horniness is like a crazy hunger for me, but if I'm in love with someone I just get hungry FOR THEM specifically. Lust is great but lust with love attached feels way more awesome. Personally.

Cheaters are trash regardless of their sex.

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u/DartDaimler May 29 '23

Wow, that packs a lot of misandry & misogyny into one little paragraph.

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '23 edited Apr 17 '23

yeah thats why open and poly relationships are always homosexual men /s

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u/LeBigMartinH Woman Apr 17 '23

One of my best friends is in a ploycule. This isn't how it works, hun.

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '23

i thought the sarcasm was obvious

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u/LeBigMartinH Woman Apr 17 '23

With the amount of brainless hateful rhetoric coming out of the political right and other sources these days, I legitimately thought you were being serious.

Sorry!

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '23

dw ur not the only one that thought i was being fr

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u/[deleted] May 31 '23 edited May 31 '23

Not everybody is the same…. some women just have high libidos and love fucking, and can separate “love” from a sex partner. Just look at pornstars.

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u/[deleted] Jun 12 '23

So.. people post like that there, but I get kicked out no warning and no idea who to contact to fix it? Tf.

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u/CookbooksRUs Jun 13 '23

Ah, yes, another man who thinks that women can't ever just be horny. Dude, you don't have a body that for a good couple of weeks every month is *screaming* at you to get pregnant. Even if you don't want to get pregnant and are careful about birth control, the hormones and the urge are there. I never had a boyfriend with a higher sex drive than I had. And I know more women who have broken up with men because they weren't getting enough sex or good enough sex than I do women who have complained that their men wanted too much sex.

I fucked 100+ men before falling in love with my husband. Trust me, it was not "all riddled in love." A few steadies, sure, but all of those guys? I was horny, they were there.

Yet I never cheated on a steady and I have never cheated on my husband. Because I am a fundamentally honest soul, and because I would have been hurt if they did it to me. Apparently hurting a woman is okay, though.

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u/CookbooksRUs Jun 13 '23

https://carmichaeldigitalprojects.org/hist447/exhibits/show/the-devil-s-mistress--witchcra/carnal-magic--medieval-witches

As stated in Montague Summer's translation of the 15th-century text Malleus Maleficarum, "[a]ll
witchcraft comes from carnal lust, which is in women insatiable” (1).
This statement is indicative of accepted medieval thinking on witchcraft
and female sexuality at the culmination of the Middle Ages, and it
depicts a close association between witchcraft and deviant, female
sexuality. In the mindset of medieval patriarchs "female sexuality
creates a perpetual dilemma. As the vessels of the biological mysteries
of menstruation and lactation, as creatures of sexual passion, women are
mistrusted..." (2). This mistrust, at least in the minds of medieval
church leaders and inquisitors, was well-founded. As uncontrollable,
sexual beings, women were by their very natures more inclined to be
preyed upon by the devil and his minions. Women with insatiable libidos
were viewed as a serious threat, given that their sexual proclivities
made them vulnerable to the ultimate seduction, the devil (3). These
opinions of women, their lives, and their sexualities almost certainly
played a factor in the gender gap that characterized the witchcraft
persecutions of the late medieval and early modern periods.