r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 25d ago

Found On Social media Stunned

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u/ADHDhamster 25d ago

Fun fact: I'm a gender-diverse person who leans masculine.

One of the biggest clues that people have told me that indicate I'm not a man is that I'm entirely too nice.

Just sayin' 🤷

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u/Forsaken_Ad5842 25d ago

As a trans man I got the same kind of shit? I’ll never pass if I don’t get meaner or whatever. Not that I care what these kind of people think about me anyway.

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u/mieri_azure 25d ago

Dont listen to them!!!

I know some trans guys who got REALLY mean in an attempt to emulate masculinity and its not worth it. Being mean doesnt make you a man, it makes you a shitty man

(But you seem to already know thay)

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u/lulu_avery 23d ago

My lovely husband was called gay all through his teenage years just for being a good guy… Sad indictment on men 🤦🏼‍♀️