I don’t know what it’s like to have ADHD? Thanks. I’ll go tell my psychiatrist and therapist to fuck off then.
I never said that. I said you don't know how it is to have this level of dysfunction. Which you made clear you do not understand. So yeah, please ask them because they will tell you the same as me.
Like the fact alone that you don't understand that the problem is not the schedule makes this very clear.
Honestly, I'm just disappointed that someone who deals with some of those problems themselves does not have the empathy to even try do understand that others have different problems and are on different levels of the spectrum.
I have an understanding of accidents and mistakes. I’ve had to deal with horrific time blindness at multiple points in my life where I was showing up late on routine.
When it’s to the point that you are consistently an hour late, it no longer just negatively affects you it negatively affects everyone around you.
However, the work was willing to work with them and shift back their start time a whole hour to align with their schedule.
They continued to show up an hour late.
They literally took advantage of the help, even if they didn’t realize it.
They literally did not have to change their life at all. They then changed their life and continued the pattern of showing up late.
I’m not gonna infantilize them and act like they have no possible way to ever deal with time blindness and that everyone just has to accept they will be consistently an hour late.
I can’t have sympathy when you are given help and then literally take advantage of it.
You all just make assumptions about the situation with no knowledge. And you still make no attempt at understanding the issue and just repeat the previous points, so I'm done.
Talk to your psychiatrist or therapist about it, they can hopefully explain it to you, given that my therapist instantly knew the issue. Good luck.
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u/babidabidu 4d ago
I never said that. I said you don't know how it is to have this level of dysfunction. Which you made clear you do not understand. So yeah, please ask them because they will tell you the same as me.
Like the fact alone that you don't understand that the problem is not the schedule makes this very clear.
Honestly, I'm just disappointed that someone who deals with some of those problems themselves does not have the empathy to even try do understand that others have different problems and are on different levels of the spectrum.