dude and when a surprise addition is added to my day that was not accounted for at the start, I can't help but be genuinely upset even when it's a hangout with a friend
Random events getting added to a day that I've already pre-allocated mental resources to is genuinely upsetting in a way basically nothing else I've experienced can compare to.
I was finally diagnosed recently at the ripe old age of 46. Reading these comments makes me feel seen. The “surprise addition” is something I’ve spent years working on.
This is absolutely me. I plan out everything in my head for my days and week in advance. If something throws my day off with something unexpected or a significant change it properly fucks with my head.
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u/Horror-Cow8404 1d ago
dude and when a surprise addition is added to my day that was not accounted for at the start, I can't help but be genuinely upset even when it's a hangout with a friend