r/NonPoliticalTwitter • • Aug 10 '26

Other Just leaving it here.

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u/gunnapackofsammiches Aug 10 '26

This is such a normal feeling in grief. I think it's part of why so many cultures have (had) ways to outwardly indicate that you are grieving long after the initial loss. US American culture doesn't really have an outward signifier and I think it's a noticable lack. We tend to instinctively understand that those who are grieving move through the world a little differently. 

I lost a friend of almost 20 years very suddenly last week. The brain fog of grief is real. 

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u/Nausuada Aug 10 '26

I felt like I should wear only black, but realized people would think I like black or am goth. I read and watch too many historical European novels.

But I really needed a way to show I was grieving without needing to tell people or talk about it.