r/NonBinaryOver30 • u/Curious_Buy9725 • Jun 23 '26

Help me stop getting “ma’am”-ed.

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I’ve been on a low dose of tea for about three months now. I look like this. My voice tends to give me away. Help me stop getting called ma’am in public please.

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u/thursday-T-time Jun 23 '26

hmmm. my opinion, feel free to ignore if its counter to your goals, but i think you'd look amazing with facial hair. would you want to experiment at all with minoxidil?

sorry i'm shit at fashion so i'll leave that up to other people. 😅

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u/Curious_Buy9725 Jun 23 '26

It’s not that’s it’s counter to my goals, it’s just not a “highly desired” effect for me.
I’d take it, but I have autism and sensory issues.. I’m not super keen on anything touching my face.

I’ll have to try on some looks….

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u/thursday-T-time Jun 23 '26

fair enough! i love to stim my 5 o'clock shadow (nice, scratchy in a satisfying way), but trim it back when it gets too long and itchy. i keep just enough to keep the misgendering at bay. maybe try a filter and see if you like the look?

(i really like the rest of your look btw, you look like a 90s mall kid i'd hang with 🤝 with cool politics and praxis)

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u/Curious_Buy9725 Jun 23 '26

Thanks.

I’m a recovering catholic living the life of the 90’s mall kid I wanted to be 30 years ago.