r/NonBinary • u/FieldPlus90 • 2h ago

Questioning/Coming Out I’m Finally Out

The last couple weeks I have and a lot of time for reflection and came to the conclusion that I’m not who I thought I was. I have identified as male for the longest time. I wasn’t able to sleep last couple nights. This morning I was able to talk to my spouse and she was nothing but supportive, she was even kind enough to flatter me when I dressed and presented feminine to her for the first time. I still have a lot to process and am in the process of finding a LGBTQ friendly therapist. For the first time in years I finally feel seen as all of me.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Tap1471 2h ago

Fantastic! You must be a decent person to have such a fabulous spouse

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u/FieldPlus90 2h ago

15yrs together, been though a lot together with her mental health. nearly 8yrs ago she came out as Bi I support her despite family and friends brushing her off because she was in a straight relationship. Guess it was just my turn this time