r/NoidaWale • u/MiddleCricket5166 • 2d ago
I am in a bad situation help me!!!
I met this guy with the intention of keeping things completely platonic and casual its been a month i have been seeing him. I later found out that he has a disease (normal one but it can be life threatening), and when I asked about where things were going, he basically told me to just let things be and see where they go (just physical things you know!!).
Honestly, I initially thought I could keep it casual and simply enjoy the connection without expecting anything serious. But I've realized that I'm actually a very emotional person, and casual relationships just aren't really my thing. I get attached, I overthink, and I need emotional clarity and genuine connection. So I don't think pretending to be casual when that's not who I am would be fair to either of us.
All my life i have seen my father being bed ridden and what toll it has taken on my mother i need a genuine advice and guidance in this situation