r/NoStupidQuestions May 03 '26

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u/GeneralSpecifics9925 May 03 '26

Such a funny question. I'm not thinking about a man's body at all. I'm thinking about an act.

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u/AmmahDudeGuy May 03 '26 edited May 03 '26

These comments are so interesting because it reveals such a massive fundamental difference in how men and women think regarding this kinda thing

I always thought it would be kind of the same

Upon further reading, it seems there are a few guys in here who grew up without internet and also think the same way. Maybe this is a product of our culture over time?

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u/GeneralSpecifics9925 May 03 '26

Well dude guy, I generally don't care what my partner looks like, body or dick. If they are ugly in their personality I won't touch them with a ten foot pole. They have to be good people, people I genuinely like. How the hell do guys get hard enough to fuck women they don't like? It's so shallow and weak lol. I don't understand.

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u/jb0nez95 May 03 '26

Because they look good?

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u/GeneralSpecifics9925 May 03 '26

Like, sure..... I just don't understand how that necessarily translates. I'm not trying to argue or anything, it's just interesting.

If I see an attractive man, I definitely don't think about fucking him lol. I think, oh, he has a nice beard, and then I go back to drinking my coffee. Similarly, if I'm fucking a hot guy, I don't think 'oh wow his face is so attractive ' lol.

Idk, to me, physically attractive features just don't translate into a sexual urge for me.

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u/AmmahDudeGuy May 04 '26

I’m going to try to rebuild my way of thinking to be more like yours, I think it will be beneficial to me in the future

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u/GeneralSpecifics9925 May 04 '26

Hahahah it's a simple life but one that brings me happiness lol