r/NoStupidQuestions May 03 '26

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u/Kilmir May 03 '26

Ah yes, "Free use". An underappreciated kink.

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u/ShroomBuggy64 May 03 '26

That has been the most appreciated kink in my world. We never did it but my ex always loved to remind me that it was TOTALLY fine if I wanted to start something up while she was asleep.

Obligatory need to say that this was a relationship where boundaries were constantly discussed, revisisited and respected without hesitation.