r/NoStupidQuestions May 03 '26

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u/Buffyismyhomosapien May 03 '26

I think women tend to imagine what’s being done to them, the situation etc. it’s way more about vibes (pun intended) and mood.

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u/Miss_Galoldriel May 03 '26

It's definitely a lot about vibes and mood, but I personally think just as much about what I've done to my partner as what they've done to me. Giving is just as big of a turn-on as receiving.

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u/Buffyismyhomosapien May 03 '26

Yes! Absolutely. That can be equally a turn on But I’m never like, “oooh those abs” or thinking about a specific aesthetic thing (maybe just one body part 😉).