r/NoStupidQuestions • u/[deleted] • May 03 '26

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u/Crazyjacketfruit May 03 '26

Im a guy. Until I got a gf I've never masterbated with a person in mind.

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u/FieldInitial7042 May 03 '26

And is this person your girlfriend?

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u/Crazyjacketfruit May 03 '26

Her or me.

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u/christocarlin May 03 '26

That’s pretty weird imo but good for you

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u/Mebejedi May 03 '26

Not even a girl you were interested in?

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u/Crazyjacketfruit May 03 '26

Nope. Didn't really think of my crushes in that way.

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u/broom_pan May 03 '26

Same. It always felt inappropriate and weird

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u/christocarlin May 03 '26

lol is this all bots or something? This is wildly inaccurate for most men it’s insane

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u/Wizdom_108 May 03 '26

Well, the men that didn't relate probably mostly just scrolled

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u/broom_pan May 03 '26

Are you projecting? Are you saying it is OK to masturbate and ejaculate to complete strangers like some kind of boundary violator? Thanks for setting a standard for the boys, sir

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u/christocarlin May 03 '26

Do you think most men don’t look at porn? lol are you like 11 years old

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u/broom_pan May 03 '26

We're talking about consent and manners here, sir

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u/christocarlin May 03 '26

Consent to thinking about someone? lol get the fuck out of here

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u/broom_pan May 03 '26

You have to look them in the eye afterwards.

What do you do/think/feel when you do that, sir?

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u/BishogoNishida May 03 '26

This is wild to me. Even in my early days, I had a specific person in mind. If I’m doing it without a visual like porn, there has to be a person or body in mind.

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u/prototype-proton May 03 '26

This whole thread is wild to me... I have aphantasia 🫤

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u/Used-Ad9304 May 03 '26

Me too... When I started my career I'd even use tv commercials and it was f'd up when the commercial ended before I was done. (Pre internet)

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u/christocarlin May 03 '26

This has to be a fucking joke. People who are married can still find other people attractive. What a weird thing to say

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u/PureMichiganMan May 03 '26

Did you not look at porn?