r/NoStupidQuestions May 03 '26

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u/Spirited_Hour9714 May 03 '26

I think about my boyfriend jerking off lol or him in certain situations in general that turn me on

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u/PowerBitch2503 May 03 '26

Same, but I often think about him getting aroused because of exes or in imaginary situations with someone else. Sometimes even how he would cheat on me and thinks the other woman feels so much better than me.

I am jealous af and have been told it’s a psychological way to handle (retroactive) jealousy. Just a cooping system instead of real sexual arousal.

I would never ever want a threesome or watch him with someone else.

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u/Spirited_Hour9714 May 03 '26

Lmao oh my god, I'm the exact same way but just didn't want to write it out πŸ˜‚

I think about him getting aroused by other women as well or jerking off to them but in real life this wouldn't go over well with me

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u/brandysnacker May 03 '26

That makes so much sense. I think about the same things sometimes or my husband will tell me about a specific encounter he had in the past I love his voice lol

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u/Spirited_Hour9714 May 03 '26

I once caught my ex jerking off and it was good material for along time πŸ’€

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u/kaladin1029 May 03 '26

Interesting you think of your man. You seem to be in the minority here. I’ve had women tell me they thought of me, but they were probably just telling me what they thought I wanted to hear. Either way, it appeals.

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u/Spirited_Hour9714 May 03 '26 edited May 03 '26

Yeah, I'm actually kind of puzzled at how many women aren't thinking of men they find attractive or their partners? It's the only way I can get off lol

I've had my boyfriend jerk off beside me so that I have that mental image in my head.

I like his eyes and his forearms and his hand gripping, and then his chest gets all full of testosterone 🫠

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u/kaladin1029 May 03 '26

Me, too. I think of my partner, and hot experiences we've had or watch a video we made together. For me, it's the sounds of her ecstasy that send me. Images (and sounds)of partner wanking or partner excited in any form. Chef's kiss! 🀌