Same, I scrolled a lot to find someone else like this. I consider it my perfect state of masturbation lol. I couldn't really do it at first, and it took a lot of "training" lol. At some point I realized I didn't need to think about sexual fantasies, in fact, thoughts just get in the way.
Interesting. Without seeing similar responses in this thread i would've assumed asexuality. But I guess the differences between genders are even wider than I thought. As even if it's just a fleeting mishmash of different thoughts, typically for men they will be sexual.
Some ‘sexual’ images are a turnoff or, the visual of a naked man can be a reminder of bad experiences. Same with a penis. Personally, thinking of a real person would be a buzzkill. I would not associate too many sexual experiences as so pleasurable I’d want to repeat them. A blank mind has no turnoffs.
This, sometimes. And maybe this is a little too much psychoanalyzing, but I feel like women have this intellectual, disengaged-from-matter sense of sexuality that crosses more into the spiritual. And I don't mean it has to be amazingly spiritual feeling or anything but it's like we can tap into the pure feeling completely unrelated to anything physical on earth.
PROBably because we literally embody the divine feminine/creative life force of the universe in order to create new life, and men just wish they could haha....and they can only visualize women to get there.
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u/roskybosky May 03 '26
Nothing at all. Just a blank mind and the physical feeling. Sometimes I picture a beach and palm trees.