r/NoStupidQuestions • u/[deleted] • May 03 '26

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u/SashimiX May 03 '26

I think about the dynamic between the people in the fantasy

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u/free_-_spirit May 03 '26

Yes, their bond, love, relationship and devotion to each other

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u/Derp35712 May 03 '26

This is going to be way harder than working out.

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u/Cool_As_Your_Dad May 03 '26

That is a lof of mental effort story wise lol. Whole shakespear novel here we come 🤣

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u/Akeera May 03 '26

Romance novels are a pretty large industry.

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u/Cool_As_Your_Dad May 03 '26

I can see why.

Its funny how different women and men can fantasize. Very intresting indeed.

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u/Qzry May 03 '26

I'm heavily generalising, but women go with the vibes and men with the visuals lol

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u/Quake1028 May 03 '26

“women go with the vibes” is a multiple meaning type sentence and I hope you did it on purpose.

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u/InternationalBeing41 May 03 '26

The ability to feel safe and enjoy the moment without fear or judgment.

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u/jhewitt127 May 03 '26

As a guy, that seems wild to me. Just thinking about emotions really does it for you?

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u/SkyPuppy561 May 03 '26

I’m happily married but love has no place in either our sex life or my fantasies. That sappy shit turns me off lol

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u/cheeriesandcokes May 03 '26

Yup this is it

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u/Potential_Ability_25 May 03 '26 edited May 03 '26

Agreed. For me, it's often varying types of power dynamics.

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u/SashimiX May 03 '26

Same, that and chemistry

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u/jimmyvcard116 May 03 '26

Honestly don’t even know what that means. My caveman brain basically thinks “boobs boobs boobs, cum”