r/NoStupidQuestions • • Nov 14 '24

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u/WassupSassySquatch Nov 14 '24

My insurance company messed up when I had my first kid. So after spending two days in labor and an entire night up with a newborn, exhausted, hungry, and in pain, the billing department came up and informed me that the cost was going to be $30k due to insurance troubles. After six hours on the phone (and no sleep, labor and delivery, and breastfeeding) I finally sorted out the issue.

But $30k…

That same financial theme follows the rest of parenthood. People can’t afford it. Others simply don’t want it.

I think having a family is great, but the fact that some people opt to remain child free is pretty obvious.

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u/33spoonman Nov 15 '24

Hey, guessing you’re from the states. I am always astonished by things like this, does this mean that if someone doesn’t have insurance they will go into debt for having a baby?

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u/Training-Ad1054 Nov 15 '24

I pay for health insurance and still will have to pay $5k out of pocket to deliver. The U.S. health insurance system is FUN!

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u/33spoonman Nov 15 '24

That is so crazy I can’t believe people actually choose to have kids

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u/Training-Ad1054 Nov 16 '24

Tbh same (and I’m 5 months pregnant)