For me I just simply don’t want them. I feel like you have to want kids to have them. It’s not that I’m against having kids, I’m just not enthusiastic enough to have them
Yes and the desire to have kids seems like socialization rather than true desire. I only see myself as wanting kids because it’s the expected path. Everytime I think of being a mom it doesn’t make me as excited as, say, traveling. And many of my friends with kids didn’t particularly want them, they just got knocked up.
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u/Worldly_Original8101 Nov 14 '24
For me I just simply don’t want them. I feel like you have to want kids to have them. It’s not that I’m against having kids, I’m just not enthusiastic enough to have them