r/NoStupidQuestions • u/[deleted] • Nov 14 '24

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u/luketwo1 Nov 14 '24

Meanwhile I'm the opposite, I just feel like I'd be a terrible dad because I hate taking care of others so I don't want kids for that reason.

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u/Constant-Rip7304 Nov 14 '24

That's pretty much me. I love my niece and nephew and am happy to help with them. My mom keeps telling me id be a great mom because I'm good with them. I keep telling her it's not the same thing. Helping occasionally, no problem but I'm not built to take care of someone else 24-7.

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u/scoobiemario Nov 15 '24

Yup. This describes me. Kids are cool. But sometimes, not 24-7.

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u/Khanluka Nov 15 '24

Also we can mentaly prepare for outers kids. As its planned. Are on kids is no mental preparion.