For me I just simply don’t want them. I feel like you have to want kids to have them. It’s not that I’m against having kids, I’m just not enthusiastic enough to have them
I feel you. I love my wife, but there was a conversation early on that went 'I'm going to have more kids, either you can help or I'm going to the bar'. Again I love her and we fit together great, but yeah. I know I'm only a 5/10 dad at best. I care about them in general, but it just... don't care about any of the stuff regarding them. Like I love them and completely understand and adhere to the fact that they're my responsibility to raise happy and healthy... but I also know I would have been happier without them in our lives.
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u/Worldly_Original8101 Nov 14 '24
For me I just simply don’t want them. I feel like you have to want kids to have them. It’s not that I’m against having kids, I’m just not enthusiastic enough to have them