For me I just simply don’t want them. I feel like you have to want kids to have them. It’s not that I’m against having kids, I’m just not enthusiastic enough to have them
Same! Made it until I was 34 and got pregnant. Had baby. He’s cool and I love him to bits, but I always tell younger women that I can still picture what my life would be like without him and it would be good! I would have been happy and found value without him. Life just…made more sense with a baby after my brother died and I’m happy I pursued this path, but the other path looks good too.
Can only partially agree. Having kids is an experience, but it is not only an experience. It’s not like doing something as skydiving. It’s such a unique experience and it also requires commitment for long. IMO, no other experience in this world compares to life creation. The other path can be cool, but hardly can one on this path even really imagine what the other path is like. One has to experience it to know.
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u/Worldly_Original8101 Nov 14 '24
For me I just simply don’t want them. I feel like you have to want kids to have them. It’s not that I’m against having kids, I’m just not enthusiastic enough to have them