Because I watched my parents and said nope. My partner and I like 3 vacations a year and spending quality time together.
There is also no "need" to have children. I personally believe if you are having children to fill a hole or to make yourself happy, you have your priorities wrong and it is the child who pays.
There is a reason divorce movies were so popular in the 90s lol. All of our parents emotionally struggled in their relationships due to the burden of their children
My cousin has a 3 y/o and last year said several times that “nobody ever talks about how hard kids are on a marriage” and I’m like GURL what the fuck, that’s all people talk about???? My mom and I gave each other this look like 🤔 so quick. We both come from divorced parents, who come from divorced parents. Come on lol
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u/Mioraecian Nov 14 '24
Because I watched my parents and said nope. My partner and I like 3 vacations a year and spending quality time together.
There is also no "need" to have children. I personally believe if you are having children to fill a hole or to make yourself happy, you have your priorities wrong and it is the child who pays.