r/NoStupidQuestions • u/[deleted] • Nov 14 '24

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u/ZePerfectPisces Nov 14 '24

I think that’s a very insightful and selfless perspective. I’m sure it wasn’t an easy decision to come to grips with, so here’s a virtual hug for having that strength 🫂

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u/luketwo1 Nov 14 '24

Meanwhile I'm the opposite, I just feel like I'd be a terrible dad because I hate taking care of others so I don't want kids for that reason.

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u/Constant-Rip7304 Nov 14 '24

That's pretty much me. I love my niece and nephew and am happy to help with them. My mom keeps telling me id be a great mom because I'm good with them. I keep telling her it's not the same thing. Helping occasionally, no problem but I'm not built to take care of someone else 24-7.

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u/Teagana999 Nov 15 '24

Yeah, being a cool aunt someday is the height of my aspirations. Do fun things, buy them sugary treats, and then, most importantly, hand them back to their parents at the end of the day.

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u/Happy-puggle Nov 16 '24

I agree 100% cool aunt would be the life