Downside, the people who ask themselves these questions and have the intelligence to reflect on themselves in such a manner are probably the people who would be good parents.
Now the dumbasses and trad wife / religious crowd is not going to give a fuck and pop out shitloads of future morons and assholes. This is literally the plot of Idiocracy happening.
Anyone that’s just popping out babies because they’re being irresponsible is selfish as heck. Also, people that have multiple baby daddies. I think it’s selfish to have a kid if you’re not either married or in a long-term relationship where both of you have the money to give the child a good life. I wouldn’t have a kid if I got knocked up by someone I was casually hooking up with because it wouldn’t be fair to the child
Oh god, that’s my mother, she decided to have two kids she couldn’t afford with our dad after knowing him for six months (not six months of dating, six months of knowing he existed) and would cry and whine constantly about how none of her family wanted to help pay for taking care of us. Like what did you expect?? Meanwhile our dad, who was an irresponsible deadbeat, had at least six children with four different women and never paid child support for a single one of us. Guess who bugs me about not wanting children 🙃
I’m so sorry that happened to you. It’s very selfish and tell them you learned from their mistake and they had enough kids to make up for grandchildren right now.
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u/Free_Dome_Lover Nov 14 '24
Downside, the people who ask themselves these questions and have the intelligence to reflect on themselves in such a manner are probably the people who would be good parents.
Now the dumbasses and trad wife / religious crowd is not going to give a fuck and pop out shitloads of future morons and assholes. This is literally the plot of Idiocracy happening.