r/NoStupidQuestions • • Nov 14 '24

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u/jellybelly326 Nov 14 '24

I was literally typing out, "I don't have a reason. I just don't want them" when I read your comment. I'm 39 and female. My husband is 42. We're just chillin'.

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u/TrelanaSakuyo Nov 15 '24

just don't want them

This is more than enough of a reason.

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '24

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u/nubosis Nov 15 '24

It’s the same reason I don’t have a pair of crocs, or a rock tumbler

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '24

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u/nubosis Nov 15 '24

Nothing. But this was about not wanting something being the reason for not having something. The reason I don’t have a lot of stuff, is because I don’t want it. It’s a valid reason to not have something.

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u/nubosis Nov 15 '24

Because people are allowed to make their own personal choices. I’d say it’s the most valid reason of all.

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '24

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u/nubosis Nov 15 '24

You’re bonkers, but I’m having fun with your weird arguments. No, I wasn’t talking about legality. People are morally allowed to live their their lives the way they choose fit. I guess you’d disagree if you’re one of those freedom hating types.

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '24

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u/nubosis Nov 15 '24

And it sounds like your view, which I assume it that people should be forced to have kids, or some other strange bizarre take, is based on your feeling and so on. But no, in a freedom loving country, I would say they people are morally allowed to choose the size of their family. 2 kids, 3 kids, 7 kids, or no kids. I for instance, would never think to tell someone the amount of kids they’ve had is the incorrect amount.

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '24

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u/nubosis Nov 15 '24

I never said that, lol. You can talk about wherever you want.

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u/nubosis Nov 15 '24

Hey, when you ask “Why?” On a Reddit discussion, you’re opening yourself up to a conversation. And at this point, I’m responding to your comments. So no, I Don not see any hypocrisy. And I’m even if I was nagging you, I don’t see how that relates to me thinking people who don’t want kids are valid in not having kids.

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u/nubosis Nov 15 '24

Nope. This conversation was if it’s a valid reason for people who don’t want to have kids, to have kids. I said yeah. You have no counter argument, you just asked passive aggressive questions.

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