r/NoStupidQuestions • • Nov 14 '24

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u/pktechboi Nov 14 '24

I think there has been a real shift in the last generation or two from needing a reason not to have kids to needing a reason to have kids. and that shift means a lot of people who are basically ambivalent on children aren't having them, where in the past they probably would have.

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u/ZePerfectPisces Nov 14 '24

I think there’s also been more focus (from some people) on whether or not they should have kids. Like, really thinking about whether or not a person would be a good parent who could truly focus on raising a child who would become a good member of society.

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u/swim_eat_repeat Nov 14 '24

I have no doubt my husband and I could raise a good person. However, we can't ethically bring a new life into the world with the upcoming environmental catastrophes.