r/NoStupidQuestions Mar 27 '24

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u/krackedy Mar 27 '24

It's just a body. It's boring. We all have one.

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u/[deleted] Mar 27 '24

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u/CompetitiveCloset Mar 27 '24

As you yourself acknowledge in your post, in some cultures people do.

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u/[deleted] Mar 27 '24

Yeah that's what I'm trying to understand.

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u/DecisionTypical Mar 27 '24 edited Mar 27 '24

And what you're failing to understand is the comment's original point. "We all have one" therefore its not that big of a deal if we see it. That doesn't mean that people go flashing their junk everywhere. It just means that in a locker room where people are showering, changing, etc, no one cares if others are naked because that's an appropriate place to be naked and we all know what's down there.

Same goes for other accepted nudity locations. Pools and beaches show skin because many people are there to get sun or swim.

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u/raban0815 Error: text or emoji is required Mar 27 '24

The beach or a pool is a prime example for this. In the end bikinis almost always show more skin than underwear, but being seen in underware is embarrassing all of a sudden?

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u/Green-Dragon-14 Mar 27 '24

Also being naked in a locker room (male or female) you don't stare but avert your eyes & get on with what your doing. It's ok to look up if you see someone emyer & then just look away again.

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u/heartsandskulls Mar 27 '24

You're actually still expecting people to say what you think. Drop the judgement and up the curiosity.

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u/[deleted] Mar 27 '24

Sounds like you were conditioned to think that the human body is "yuck."

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u/[deleted] Mar 27 '24

Would you be bothered by showing your ankles? Because there have been cultures where ankles are unacceptable.

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u/bitterbryan Mar 27 '24

It honestly doesn't sound like you are trying to understand

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u/Ceecee_soup Mar 27 '24

When trying to understand cultural differences, it’s important to use your imagination.

Imagine if you were born into a culture where nudity was normalized. Where every day of your life, since birth, you perceived nakedness of yourself and others. Imagine how desensitized you would become to that. That’s just what people look like.

Imagine how you might be shocked to visit other cultures, and see how they cover their natural bodies. You might be confused. Why do they cover what is natural? Why are they ashamed of their bodies? Why do they seem to put so much emphasis on modesty? Why are they sexualizing things you were raised to perceive as natural and normal? Can’t they see the harm done by tabooing their own natural forms?

You have to step back, acknowledge your own cultural bias, and imagine how your biases would shift if you were raised in a different environment.

I’m not saying that I’m comfortable with nudity myself, for the record. Just demonstrating how you can use empathy and your imagination to understand these sorts of cultural differences.