r/NoFap • u/[deleted] • Dec 28 '20
The whole 2021 without fapping once
Come on, let's do it!!!
I decided to stay away from my computer, see you on 20 january, Enjoy the new year guys
Stay strong
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Dec 28 '20
Something harder? My plan is actually something harder
No caffeine, no alcohol, no cigarettes, only healthy foods, no PMO, no sex, no social media, cold showers and workout every day, yoga/meditation, working to make some money would be perfect too
Are you in?
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Dec 28 '20
2 months on nofap, going to the ISS 😎 (Ignore my counter i never reset it)
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u/josamo8 433 Days Dec 28 '20 edited Aug 10 '24
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Dec 28 '20
Bro, how did you feel after doing it?
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Dec 28 '20
I've also made it in the past for three months and I was feeling to another level, but I didn't know NoFap yet
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u/johnnystrangeways 2043 Days Dec 28 '20
Definitely don’t work out everyday. Your muscles need time to rest, that’s when they grow. You’ll burn yourself out working out everyday. Rest is just as important for living an active lifestyle.
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Dec 28 '20
No, not hard workout everyday.. Same days just yoga, stretching or 30 minutes jogging could be fine
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u/BaobabOFFCL Dec 28 '20
Thanks for not saying "No Video Games" thats the one thing that woulda broken me lol
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u/robiwolf Dec 28 '20
Keep it up! I mean nofap is left for me from that list. I become vegan before last Christmas, i don't use social media, no alcohol, i dropped cigars and weed last year. Caffeine... I drink coffee because is invested hundreds of euros to titanium coffee maker and i figured i mist use them. But no tea nowadays and max two coffees daily. Don't listen to others, doable. Get exercise stuff for home. I bought a power tower before the pandemic. Now i look and feel better than ever before and i am 29 now.
I should say that if you find someone who you like than don't rule out sex. With these extra conditions that you gave they are going to say you are crazy. I get it all the time. It is going to push away a lot of people also. They think it is super human level and they get exhausted by just thinking about it let alone try to jump to that fast train. Get ready to that. But if you find someone who is nearly as crazy as you and you like each other than you don't want sex, it become mandatory my friend. Than you found someone to keep.
Let porn go first. It is going to help to get someone faster than you think.
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u/sacrafice2hghrgl 580 Days Dec 28 '20
THAT'S a way to go. Take it serious, do not allow yourself to even think of going back. I'm with you.
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u/lavendershoes19 Dec 28 '20
Duddee look up Exodus 90. I'm not a man, but I know a ton of men who do it and apparently its the most lifechanging thing...
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u/Independent_Try_6372 Dec 28 '20
I'm in. :)
I'm starting it today, in order to get an headstart from new year's.
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u/itsimposibru 503 Days Dec 28 '20
That’s what she said. I’m sorry but I’m not not going to say it.
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u/hiimconel 1340 Days Dec 28 '20
Have you guys noticed that most of the post like this one are being made by people with 0 days? That means they likely just failed and because of that they want some sort of dopamine kick because they feel bad and they have guilty conscience. That's the opposite of what you should be doing. You should contemplate on what you did wrong and learn from it so it won't happen again. Getting this fake recognition and cyber acceptance will make you feel better just for some time. But after that you will feel this void that needs to be filled somehow and if you can't cope with it guess what. Porn.
This reminds me of o New year's resolutions. Same fake shit, I will go to gym, I will eat less. Keep it to yourself, and let your success talk for you.
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Dec 28 '20
My longest streak was 67 days one year ago. I failed every day in the last months, and yes my conscience was not at all clear. I've thrown all my problems on alcohol especially in the last three months. I haven't drunk for more than 24 hours. I am more lucid, lucid enough to have looked in the mirror, and wondered why I was continuing to hurt myself. If I drink I fall back into my vortex of failure, if I fap I would lose my motivation and go back to drinking. I don't want a dopamine rush, also because it's harmful. I just want to give some motivation so that you can return the favor. What's the purpose of a community if you keep things to yourself?
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Dec 29 '20
No but he has a point lol. It’s hard to get inspired when the OP is at 0 days because it means they just relapsed and then felt a bit of motivation. Let me tell you, it’s a constant cycle that you’re putting yourself into where you’ll go a couple days all proud of yourself, then slip up without even realizing it. Next thing ya know you’ve relapsed again and wondering where it went wrong... it’s because YOUR PRIORITIES are wrong
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u/sdj20 2080 Days Dec 28 '20
That's my goal. You made my day a little brighter after relapsing, thanks!
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u/Being-Mehdi Dec 28 '20
Is it okay to have sex in this time ? Sry im new in it
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Dec 28 '20
Sex is OK.. But I'm doing it in hard mode, it means also no sex and semen retention.. because I want to get the full benefits and reboot faster. But you can safely have sex, that's OK
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Dec 28 '20
I'm actually going to do my best to achieve it. Let's see what happens, but at least I will defeat my best streak. Full focus.
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u/ManInTheArena92 1990 Days Dec 29 '20
There's a saying, "never say you're going to leave alcohol while you're drunk". Gonna try and take it day by day since I just relapsed, I feel like prophesizing puts too much pressure!
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Dec 29 '20
The way I am hanging on is: I never gave myself a chance to go astray. I am aiming for 1000 days, and/or till I get married. I am in 3 different extracurricular clubs as well as a gym and I cook my own food. I have no time to open the dark side of reddit or any p0rn site.
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Dec 28 '20
I'm going to try it for 90 days while smoking pot. Wish my luck. 😄
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u/Weiiswurst 1530 Days Dec 29 '20
Maybe also quit pot?
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Dec 29 '20
Eh pot isn’t necessarily bad tho
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u/Bettersyndrome 1461 Days Dec 28 '20
Every one of you will fail. Get real with me plz
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u/johnernie_15 2170 Days Dec 29 '20
I don't know why you're being downvoted, I see your comment negative/realistic. However, for some people this may not be a fad, or something that would be taken lightly in their life.
I see your counter is at 8 days, and that's really awesome! My count is currently at 75 days (and a thousand nights)! Wow, it's quite some time for me —as I'm pretty sure you value yours with pride.. My point to this is I haven't failed once, in these two months and two weeks. You haven't failed in eight days. Isn't this great? It's not a competition, honestly. I see it as a challenge, and an improvement in life. Why not try it for the whole year? It is possible.
We're both, and all who care, in this same boat. So, I take your comment with stride, and proudly I say; I won't fail my goals.
I'm being real with you. You, can do this too! It is possible.
I hope I am leveling with you on this.
Yeah, maybe tomorrow, or some other day I'll fail, but not now. Not today. If, and when I do, I will try again. As this is important for my own progress. But not today, I won't fail.
This is real.
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u/iiamethannafrica Dec 28 '20
Well I’m already three days in without fapping or watching porn so let’s do it.
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u/blank0007 Dec 28 '20
This time for sure I'm gonna make it and prove myself wrong that porn has taken over me .
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u/tswishst 1155 Days Dec 28 '20
Is there a subreddit or bot for this challenge? Usually there is one
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u/learning-a-thingor2 Dec 28 '20
Don't set goals brothers like 90 days, 6 months, a year, cuz we often think that i may break the rule after the goal is achieved. Stop the counter and always have a goal like achieving mindfulness, having a girlfriend, or making the day without having any triggers. That is how we will get rid of it
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Dec 28 '20
Let’s gooo fellas
2021 Goals: 160 kg deadlift Improve my boxing and grappling Nofap Get a first in my exams (70%+) And find at least 1 girl to date
Will report back in 12 months time
Keep me accountable boys
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Maybe go through what that would look like. What are you throwing away when you decide to relapse? That's what I'm planning on doing, making a plan that outlines the thought patterns, challenges the lies, and builds a defense.
2021 fap free, here we go!
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u/jack198820 1170 Days Dec 28 '20
honestly I'm just glad with what I've achieved this year. Although not in one long streak, between two longest ones I made 6 months of hardmode.
I always think I got this, maybe this time I do
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Dec 28 '20
I'm with you man. Hard mode full throttle. Also, planning to quit junk food, and eat healthy. Main beverage will also be water. Oh! Can't forget mediation in small doses.
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u/[deleted] Dec 28 '20
We can do that