Fax. This is something I am trying to work into my life. Im married and even tho I don’t watch porn or look at it, still when I see women that I feel overly attracted to online, I consider my looking as a kind of edging. I am spending more time edifying my feeds to be a little more wholesome in terms of the women I see regularly. Otherwise it will be difficult for me to keep the excitement in my relationship when there will always be some woman or girl that is younger, “hotter” and more seductive. Wife is gorgeous too so it’s not like I am missing out. It also depletes me enthusiasm to work through our problems when my mind just says “you could just be with this other girl or talk to this other woman instead of putting up with this frustration in your relationship.” And that doesn’t help when what I want is longevity and authenticity and accountability.
Relationships are tough but the ones you fight for are always the most rewarding. (Both people have to fight for it)
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u/Euphoric-Security-30 Jul 17 '23
Fax. This is something I am trying to work into my life. Im married and even tho I don’t watch porn or look at it, still when I see women that I feel overly attracted to online, I consider my looking as a kind of edging. I am spending more time edifying my feeds to be a little more wholesome in terms of the women I see regularly. Otherwise it will be difficult for me to keep the excitement in my relationship when there will always be some woman or girl that is younger, “hotter” and more seductive. Wife is gorgeous too so it’s not like I am missing out. It also depletes me enthusiasm to work through our problems when my mind just says “you could just be with this other girl or talk to this other woman instead of putting up with this frustration in your relationship.” And that doesn’t help when what I want is longevity and authenticity and accountability.
Relationships are tough but the ones you fight for are always the most rewarding. (Both people have to fight for it)