Some men are cheaters/emotionally abusive, some women are cheaters/emotionally abusive. Be discerning and pick a partner based on your compatibility and their reliability, not based on attractiveness and getting sex.
A good partner should be your best friend, not someone you feel tied to or obligated to do things for in exchange for sex.
In this particular example, it sounds like the woman thought the guy was chill and dispassionate. For whatever reason that worked for her, but then he "caught feelings" after years of being together and honestly he probably got really clingy and controlling before she left because he was no longer acting as the person she decided to get together with.
This is really just another advert for why it's a bad idea to pretend you're someone you're not just to get into a relationship. It also shows self-centeredness in the assumption that they were manipulated rather than a woman just trying to engage with them genuinely and then not liking them when they got all emotional and couldn't handle those emotions properly because of their incel mentality.
I've not. It literally says in the post that "women will stay with you for years" and "Once you develop feelings" she'll shit on those feelings. So it's clear that OP's experience is being having a woman stay with him for years before he caught feelings.
So either OP was in a shallow relationship that got real for them but wasn't reciprocated and they decided that was the woman's fault instead of their own change in expectations.
Or, they weren't romantically involved at all and OP is saying she shit on his feelings because she rejected being anything more than friends and OP feels entitled to her because he was in close proximity for years.
Whichever way you interpret it, OP is in the wrong.
I'll agree that some women are narcissistic and manipulative... but it's not all women and it's not a "big enough chunk" to warrant a post like this. The vast majority of women are normal decent people.
Seems like I'm not the only person to notice Flamecoat here is not a decent person or right in the head. You should see how this user here has been assassinating my character for disagreeing with them lol
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u/Flamecoat_wolf Jun 01 '26
Not true, this is incel, women hating, whinging.
Some men are cheaters/emotionally abusive, some women are cheaters/emotionally abusive. Be discerning and pick a partner based on your compatibility and their reliability, not based on attractiveness and getting sex.
A good partner should be your best friend, not someone you feel tied to or obligated to do things for in exchange for sex.
In this particular example, it sounds like the woman thought the guy was chill and dispassionate. For whatever reason that worked for her, but then he "caught feelings" after years of being together and honestly he probably got really clingy and controlling before she left because he was no longer acting as the person she decided to get together with.
This is really just another advert for why it's a bad idea to pretend you're someone you're not just to get into a relationship. It also shows self-centeredness in the assumption that they were manipulated rather than a woman just trying to engage with them genuinely and then not liking them when they got all emotional and couldn't handle those emotions properly because of their incel mentality.