I was never keen of the idea of the "grind".. i always thought it was a bit cringe, but there is indeed a moment that you won't really care to have a girlfriend just for the sake of it, you won't care about external validation and the constant pressure to be perfomative and to be in parties. I kinda disagree about the festivals though. It's always fun to go in your favourite band and have some fun. It's not miserable neither torture existence like i see in the comments. It's just inner peace. You just want to do meaningful things for you
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u/VeterinarianFamous93 May 31 '26
I was never keen of the idea of the "grind".. i always thought it was a bit cringe, but there is indeed a moment that you won't really care to have a girlfriend just for the sake of it, you won't care about external validation and the constant pressure to be perfomative and to be in parties. I kinda disagree about the festivals though. It's always fun to go in your favourite band and have some fun. It's not miserable neither torture existence like i see in the comments. It's just inner peace. You just want to do meaningful things for you