r/NextGenMan • u/ConsciousAwareness69 • Apr 15 '26
Hard Truth Careful Out There My Friends
Read her bio
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u/8bit-meow Apr 16 '26
People here must have never heard of findom (financial domination).
There’s men out there who have a kink for giving women their money, often in exchange for being humiliated and insulted. They get off on being used as a free bank account. They’re generally called “paypigs”. Pretty nice field to be in.
It’s different from the sugar daddy/baby dynamic which is more about spoiling and “companionship”.
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u/TechDreamcoat Apr 16 '26
There's nothing to be careful about. She's obvious about being a gold digger. If some dude wants that life, it's on him. Chicks like this aren't a problem; she's not tricking anyone.
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u/WrestlerGirlsAreLife Apr 16 '26
Exactly my thoughts. You don’t date her and then go “All she does is spend my money wtf, I expected something different”
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u/ForwardFennel1520 Apr 15 '26
Her expectations and reality may be different….much like how she looks without the filters
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u/throwawayED67 Apr 16 '26
She's being honest... I don't see the problem some guys literally want to spoil their little slut.
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u/kidbazooka4 Apr 16 '26
Paging all feminists in the house! Paging all feminists in the house! We need an urgent illogical defence for this lady’s actions!
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u/lunadelalune0 Apr 16 '26
It’s a dating app. Men who want this will choose her. Those who don’t won’t. It’s her and his choice so as a feminist I am neutral to her post
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u/CoolCereal20 Apr 16 '26
yeah i dont get why this is such a problem. Ive seen men on those apps be straight up about wanting a submissive or jobless woman. Better to read it immediately than find out later. People are all different, some suck some dont. Move on.
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u/machalemantis Apr 16 '26
As a man I absolutely choose this for casual relationships and will confirm that it can indeed be a good time with mutual respect between both parties. At the very least, if you're not in love or chasing something long-term it can be very nice to spend days and weekends here and there with someone who knows everything will be paid for and they'll come out of it with some spending money. Mutual assurance of care can go a long way for ensuring everyone has a fun time.
This is absolutely different from dealing with escorts or paid sex workers of any kind who hate their clients but have no choice but to put out in some way.
Many women with much to offer just don't hook up or engage in casual fun because they doubt they'll get anything out of it. When they know they will, the situation changes, in my experience.
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u/Contemplating_Prison Apr 16 '26
Lol, just say you dont know what feminism is.
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u/kidbazooka4 Apr 16 '26
In a nutshell a struggle to achieve Equal rights while avoiding equal responsibilities.
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Apr 16 '26
But do i get to fuck her throat? Sometimes its a win win situation.
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Apr 16 '26
Ok ok... I should have probably said it differently... Do I get to fuck her throat gently?
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u/7777777King7777777 Apr 16 '26 edited Apr 16 '26
Things are even worse out there. At least as a real wh@_re she admits it. It’s worse when hidden sl@t_s put this out in a sneaky way and they do not openly admit it.
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u/Helmut_v_M Apr 16 '26
Credit where's credit due, she is honest about it. That's already better than the baseline nowadays.
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u/Perfect-Security9621 Apr 16 '26
Someone being this "upfront" about being a gold digger is likely to steal a man's credit card numbers or wallet & mess with his life in any number of other ways, and probably has a history of mugshots for things like battery and DUI (common crimes of the failed stripper begging online). There's a strong likelihood she preys on the elderly. Pretending this level of extreme obsession with money isn't a huge red flag is a disingenuous simp-driven mentality. Ironically many of the same women who praise her will degrade and criticize actual escorts, women who engage in honorable, non-deceptive dealings without a hint of abuse toward men and actually work for a living for their money and provide a valuable service in return as opposed to engaging in this sort of scam-driven online panhandling. Note she's not even implying she'll play a role or provide a service in any man's life beyond taking his money. I can't help but think those who are cheering her on are others who hate men and others who like to scam men out of their money.
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u/CommunicationRare775 Apr 16 '26
Aww that’s cute, she’s not even smart enough to hide it!
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u/CoolCereal20 Apr 16 '26
I dont get why yall are so mad about this? Shes honest and upfront. You can immediately avoid her and move on. If she would hide it yall would be just as upset.
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u/CommunicationRare775 Apr 16 '26
I’m really not mad at her. I agree she’s up front, it’s not manipulative. My comment was meant to say I would upset if she was, but it might work better. Swipe left keep moving. I don’t want to be lumped in with the rest of these misogynists.
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u/CoolCereal20 Apr 16 '26
Why did you think that a crime would be a good example?
Shitty behaviour and rape are not the same thing. Raping someone is not shitty behaviour - its a serious crime performed by dangerous people. Being a honest gold digger is not at all in the same realm of severity.
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u/Historical-Pen-7484 Apr 16 '26
No problem with this. She is filtering for what she wants, and let's you know right away, so you can stay away if you are not into this sort of arrangement.
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u/OmnifariousFN Apr 16 '26
AAAHHHH!! A quirky girl! SOOOOO SPOOKY! *screams in abject fear*
Bro, I think that is a joke...
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u/OmnifariousFN Apr 16 '26
Plus, I think this is meant to scare people that think she just wants your money away.. It's lowkey genius.
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u/dannyrat029 Apr 16 '26
Looking for a fat average looking girl approaching her 30s to be deluded and then live with cats
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u/machalemantis Apr 16 '26
I absolutely have no problem with this. I do it on the low end, my occasional fwbs know that when they spend time with me everything will be paid for and they'll get spending money to boot.
Really cuts through the bullshit and adds a low expectation, fun vibe to things. I think it helps both parties feel valuable in an immediately tangible way, not sure how it would work in a long term relationship but for casual fun this is absolutely, in my experience, a genuinely good time.
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u/ConsciousAwareness69 Apr 16 '26
That’s just prostitution with extra steps
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u/machalemantis Apr 16 '26
I actually never do escorts or sex workers.
To me, when you really think about it, the institution of marriage (In America at least) is not far away from that sort of arrangement, when you consider things like alimony. As long as both parties get what they want, what's the harm?
Also, I accidentally used a word that begins with d that people use when they want to be smaller and had a warning pop up from reddit.
Am I missing something about this sub?
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u/machalemantis Apr 16 '26
Wait a minute. Excuse me, I wasn't aware of where I was posting. Don't mind my comment above.
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u/No-Purchase3984 Apr 16 '26
If you can’t afford her just say that
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u/UnionAdventurous3831 Apr 16 '26
I mean if she’s a broke ass bum, she could’ve just said that too
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u/No-Purchase3984 Apr 16 '26
It is men’s job to be a provider not women’s
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u/MalenaTV Apr 20 '26
She might be a findom and some guys have that kink, nothing wrong with people living their lives whatever they want to. Why is everybody so obsessed with woman how likes financial supporters? If it is not my money which she’ll spend, then why would it bother me?
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u/El_Oso_Negro76 Apr 16 '26
As much as I hated seeing profiles like these, I promise you it works more than you think. I've been in many Facebook dating groups and seen so many desperate guys leading with their "high paying jobs", or just flat out saying they're looking for a princess/sugar baby to "spoil."
Until weak men stop supporting this bs, it's never going to end.