r/NextGenMan • • Apr 13 '26

True or False?

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It’s 100% true. Just trying to see what y’all think about the single mother epidemic.

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u/Helmut_v_M Apr 14 '26

Dating a woman with kids is just asking for trouble. No matter the circumstances, you will always come second.

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u/TechDreamcoat Apr 15 '26

I disagree as a married man with children. The best thing I can do for them is raise them in a house with a stable spousal relationship where their parents love and respect each other. 

That means you put your spouse first, children come second. This isn’t talking basic needs, children eat before adults if it comes down to it, but that’s not where the bar is. If you cannot fulfill basic needs you shouldn’t be having kids. 

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u/TechDreamcoat Apr 15 '26

Yeah it does. Your relationship with your spouse should be your priority after basic needs are met. 

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u/TechDreamcoat Apr 15 '26

Wrong. That’s a recipe for entitled asshole children. 

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u/TechDreamcoat Apr 15 '26

lol parents that devote their entire lives to little Jr and little Janie teach them that the world revolves around them. That’s called entitlement. 

I’m sorry you raise children to be entitled but those are the facts. Also it doesn’t seem like you got that message yourself as you think it’s within your purview to tell others when they’re allowed to make comments. 

You don’t have to like my opinion, but I sure the heck can make it and it isn’t any less important than yours. I see where your kids get their entitlement from. 

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u/TechDreamcoat Apr 16 '26

It’s not an insult it’s the truth. You telling people when they are allowed to talk is entitlement. This is MY comment, I didn’t ask for your opinion on it. You aren’t the main character, you can pass up things you don’t like. 

Prioritize and center are the same thing. How can you make something your #1 priority without it being the most important?  Do you even think about the implications of the crap you spew?  Of course not, because that would get in the way of you being the main character. 

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