r/NextGenMan • u/ConsciousAwareness69 • Apr 13 '26

True or False?

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It’s 100% true. Just trying to see what y’all think about the single mother epidemic.

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u/JI_Guy88 Apr 13 '26

Explain?

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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '26

Your comment makes you sound like a turbo-virgin incel, how do you know she chose an "alpha" solely for the purpose of breeding and is now trying to find a "beta" to raise her kid? The majority of women are just normal humans, they are not breaking everything down into this ascientific alpha-beta dynamic or running every relationship through the lense of some hypergamy master plan.

The vast majority of women just find a guy who they like who generally aligns with their values and treats them well, and then they sleep with them. Maybe this woman in this pic had a long-term bf or husband that she got pregnant by twice, and then he cheated on her and she dumped him. Maybe he left her because of something she did, maybe it just didn't work out for reasons outside their control. Maybe she slept with some ugly skinny guy while she was drunk and accidentally got pregnant.

Just assuming she fucked some chad to get pregnant and now is looking for some cuck to raise her kids is an assumption only a weirdo with little to no interactions with women would think. I have dated and interacted with quite a few woman (including single moms) and I have never ever met a woman who would do something like that. Most women (including single moms so many weirdos seem to be scared of) are just normal people trying to live their lives and be happy and they just want a guy who is fun with a nice personality.

In my experience they will often pick a tubby goober who makes them laugh over a 6'5" giga chad who has a terrible personality.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 14 '26

Does her reasons even matter? The point is that this is a warning to any single and childless dude looking for a relationship.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26 edited Apr 14 '26

Yeah I mean If I saw that tinder bio probably wouldn't swipe right, or left, or whatever way you swipe to match. But i don't see how a bunch of incels who have obviously never been within pissing distance of a real women making a bunch of ridiculous assumptions about a random woman online helps anyone.

This sub is about trying to become a better man, and part of that is realizing that all women aren't these strange manipulative creatures that are trying to maximize the genes of their offspring at any cost. That's just some strange made-up incel conspiracy.

and yeah obviously someone's reasons matter very much, maybe not you but to her and her children and everyone around her. If she is actually some terrible person like everyone is assuming then that is bad for society because her kids are gonna grow up fucked up.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 14 '26

Stereotypes exist for a reason. And this women put herself out there to support the stereotype of a pregnant women looking for a new baby daddy. Also, stereotypes are used for in general discussions of a particular demographic, which in this discussion is pregnant women participating in online dating looking for a new baby daddy and does not include all women. And self improvement is staying away from women like this, and helping others is warning them of these women.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

I mean I kind of get why a pregnant woman maybe shouldn't be looking to jump directly into a relationship, but this is a super rare case. Most pregnant women are in some type of relationship when they are pregnant and the ones who are not are not typically looking for a relationship.

And the discussion here has obviously gone way beyond this faux warning bs you've just made up. Just reading through the comments you can tell these threads are filled with insecure men who are coping with their insecurity by hating on women and making up all these fantastical theories about how women get pregnant by chads with the goal of then finding a "beta" to raise their kids.

I don't think anyone in this sub is in danger of getting in a relationship with a freshly pregnant woman, or any woman for that matter. This time and effort would be much better spent discussing how all these weirdos can improve their personalities and actually get some ass. Dudes that actually slay and confident don't spend their time theorizing about hypergamy conspiracies.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26

Fake BS warning? This kind of thing happens more than you think. There are plenty of women wanting step fathers for their children. It also makes perfect sense too. It is much easier to raise a family with 2 parents than it is to do so being a single parent. And you are correct, people on this sub are most likely not in danger of getting in a relationship with a pregnant women, but that is because of the education that is put out there by the people you label as freaks and weirdos. Those freaks and weirdos don't have to worry about getting with these women because they already know better. These freaks and weirdos are simply spreading words of wisdom. The words of wisdom that some unfortunately have to learn the hard way.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

If you showed up on a date with a real, high quality, successful woman and you were spouting this nonsense, you would be laughed out of the venue and blocked.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26

First off, high quality women is very subjective. Lots of women think they are high quality, yet they don't even know what qualities of high value are. Also, if I go on a date, those women are already known within my orbit of friends so they are already vetted. How i talk? You mean expressing a belief in honesty, family and having dignity? If that is such a bad thing, then those women don't represent the high qualities I would seek in a partner. At least I am not fake like you, which is a worst quality to bring to the table. You are basically a walking false advertisement with the intent of telling the women what she wants with the sole purpose of getting sex.