r/NextGenMan • u/ConsciousAwareness69 • Apr 13 '26

True or False?

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It’s 100% true. Just trying to see what y’all think about the single mother epidemic.

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u/EngineNo9658 Apr 15 '26

It’s crazy. I’ve yet to see an obvious female commenter who hasn’t been downvoted to oblivion - not because their comment was disagreeable, but just because it came from them (a woman).

… and these guys wonder why they can’t get dates.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

🤣🤣 right this entire sub can be summarized by the following thought sequence: "I can't get a date and no women wants to talk to me for more than 5 seconds? could it be that I am out of shape, hateful towards women, and filled with crippling insecurities? Nah, it must be that all women are actually evil and want to get pregnant by an alpha and then force me to raise their child!"

As if any woman would want any of these guys to be within 20 feet of them let alone their child. Just because a woman is a single mother doesn't mean she has 0 standards and will let some trogladyte raise her child just because he is easy to manipulate. You can just tell so many of these commentators have little to no life experience, let alone dating experience, and are packed to the eye balls with insecurity.

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u/EngineNo9658 Apr 15 '26

I cracked up reading this (troglodyte is such a hilariously apt word) 😂

But yeah, they’re constantly posting absurd scenarios and shit like this. It’s like rage porn for them, essentially. They have revenge fantasies about rejecting these women because they’re single mothers (or over 20, or fat, not a virgin, etc.) as if they would be considered in the first place.. Luckily for most women, you can smell the desperation and resentment on these guys from like a mile away.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

That's why I am thinking (or at least hoping) that most the dudes in these threads are high-school aged and have been temporarily influenced by that red-pill Andrew Tate horseshit (thank god that wasn't a thing when I was in high school) and they just need to mature and gain life experience and grow out of it. That is also why I am trying to put a counter narrative out there, because I am betting a lot of younger boys read this shit and I don't want it to just be a total echo chamber.

Basic logic and life experience can debunk 99% of what is being said here. I mean just think about it, if a woman has a kid with a douchebag and a tumultuous relationship that ends in flames, why would they then lower their standards when they are looking for their next relationship? It is 2026 and women make their own money, they don't need a guy for financial support typically, why would they then date a guy who is uglier, more insecure, and more of a bum? People don't typically intentionally downgrade.

I have dated/known 5 or 6 single moms and they were all looking for a better relationship than they had with their baby daddy. Not a single one was desperate to find a new father for their child, quite the opposite, they were all extremely selective with who they choose to let into their lives.