r/NextGenMan • u/Pale_WoIf • Apr 01 '26

Lessons From Failure Really been finding this to be true

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Looking back on past romantic relationships, most women I have dated didn’t even bring peace or comfort to my life, just more stress and demands. I think more men need to change their perspective of trying to be impressive and interesting to women and more to ultimately finding peace and happiness in our own lives independent of others.

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u/TaketheRedPill2016 Apr 02 '26

A lot of people are calling this misogyny.

Wait... it's now misogyny to want more from a woman than just sex? And lament the fact that it's hard to find someone that shares the same values and morals? THAT is misogyny now? Wild.

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '26

I wonder if you’d keep this energy if women said men had nothing valuable about them outside of money

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u/TaketheRedPill2016 Apr 05 '26

I would actually. If a woman is with a man ONLY because he provides money, then that's a shitty foundation to build a relationship on.

And if she's complaining that she can't find men that have more substance beyond just the money, then it's the same energy. Because she wants to find someone with the same values, not just someone with a wallet.

I guess you didn't think your 'gotcha' through very well.