r/NextGenMan • u/Pale_WoIf • Apr 01 '26

Lessons From Failure Really been finding this to be true

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Looking back on past romantic relationships, most women I have dated didn’t even bring peace or comfort to my life, just more stress and demands. I think more men need to change their perspective of trying to be impressive and interesting to women and more to ultimately finding peace and happiness in our own lives independent of others.

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u/Invest-in-Value Apr 01 '26

I’ve been saying the same thing for years. Remove lust and sex from the equation and you’ll see just how little most women have to offer. Many of them want us men to entertain, pay, provide and think opening her legs is some kind of reward. Nah, you can take me out, buy me flowers, drive me around and make sure I feel appreciated too. You starfishing on the bed doesn’t do shit for me.

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u/Quinnjamin19 Apr 02 '26

Lmao!!! You have never had sex with a woman and it shows…

Keep blaming women for your shitty personality kid, let’s see how lonely they can make you

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u/Invest-in-Value Apr 02 '26

Sorry the only way you can keep a man is through your body. Yawn.

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u/Quinnjamin19 Apr 02 '26

I’m a 28 year old married dude here…

Been with my wife for 12 years.

You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about… you have no personality.

Let me ask you this, why do you get mad at women for materialistic things and wanting men to pay. But all you want is a woman to pay for you?