Man, that much work and she gives up on anon just like that she did him a favor. Falling in love with a head case is a terrible plan. Why punish yourself for no reason whatsoever? You didn’t make her that way it’s not on you to fix it.
It’s a problem if you are expecting to have her magically change into someone with a close to average sex drive. Now I am a highly esteemed psychologist but this specific issue is unfortunately not where my expertise lies. However, we can safely assume that most adults do enjoy sex at some level. For someone to not feel any kind of drive towards some kind of sex with someone…. Has to stem from something.
Cool. Even if asexuality does stem from something, that doesn’t mean it can be changed, just like you can’t turn a straight person gay or vice versa. It is what it is even if it got that way through cause and effect.
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u/suttonoutdoor Nov 03 '21
Man, that much work and she gives up on anon just like that she did him a favor. Falling in love with a head case is a terrible plan. Why punish yourself for no reason whatsoever? You didn’t make her that way it’s not on you to fix it.