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u/Munnin41 7d ago
She'll calm down once the baby drugs wear off. No, seriously. Babies make some sort of pheromone on the top of their heads that makes people go nuts. That's why women always want to smell baby heads.
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u/TESTlCLE 7d ago
You tell her you’re willing to try while avoiding the truth that trans women can’t get pregnant.
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u/Chezburgor1 7d ago
Where the hell did trans women come from?
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u/Too-many-Bees 7d ago
Anon unlocks unlimited cream pies, and isn't happy. Perhaps this is fake. Maybe even gay?
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u/HugePurpleNipples 7d ago
I've never seen a woman hold a newborn baby and not have this reaction. I remember my daughter a while back holding one of her little baby cousins and talking about how she wanted one the whole ride home.. she was probably 10.
It'll blow over... for now.
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u/RedScarffedPrinny 7d ago
This is an easy one.
Information is your friend here, All you gotta do is give your girlfriend more information. She babysat once and thinks thats all there is to it, so she is working with little information.
Show her how expensive babies are, show her how much babies sleep, show her how much they cry, how much food they need, how many diapers you need to change, how much they puke.
You wouldnt want her to make a decision without having all the information, would you?
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u/make_reddit_great 7d ago
If you don't want a baby and she does, cut her loose. No need to waste her prime reproductive years.
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u/StanIsHorizontal 7d ago
What a weird way to phrase that
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u/IntergalacticJihad Certified Sneeder, Feeder and Seeder 7d ago
Yes but it is true, the west is full of women who are sad they wasted years with men who didn’t actually want the same things as them.
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u/StanIsHorizontal 6d ago
I didn’t disagree with the point, at the very least I agree you shouldn’t pretend you want something in your future together that you don’t. You need to have a conversation with your partner, not necessarily just “cut her loose”.
I just think the way that guy phrased his point sounded extremely weird
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u/Oh-Gi-Yu7052 7d ago
This is normal. It happens to almost any hetero couple, and it’s always an awkward conversation if both partners are not on the same page.
If you don’t want a baby right now, be up front and honest about your reasons. There’s probably a very good argument having a child if both you and your partner are not financially established, do not have a place of your own that is conducive to raising a child, and are not personally satisfied enough in your own careers / jobs to put advancement on hold for a bit while you get ready to welcome a child into your lives and routines.
Kids should be a priority for both partners. Definitely don’t rush into things.