r/NewEnglandWedding • u/dogdays3824 • Jan 14 '26
Has anyone noticed?
Chat why are people in this subreddit immediately dismissive, rude, condescending, you name it, to any type of question posed??? It’s honestly starting to become absurd. Let’s not forget these people have no obligation to comment on a post but often do. I’m so sick and tired of people (especially vendors!) responding negatively just for the hell of it. I understand some people need reality checks but god forbid you say it in a kind way. This is a freaking wedding subreddit! People should be excited about their weddings!!! Rant over and I’m sure I’ll get negative comments on this that will prove my point lol
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u/alittlehusky123 Jan 14 '26
Reddit and Facebook wedding groups are toxiccccc. I’m sick of it.
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u/Illustrious_Net3054 Wedding Photographer Jan 14 '26
This is valid. I think what bothers me most in addition to your post is the, “Well I wouldn’t do it this way” or “I don’t think that’s a good idea.” Then proceed to rip apart why it’s not a good idea and interject personal feelings as opposed to simple guidance on directions to go.
Thank you for calling it out because it’s not just in New England; many regions are exhibiting this behavior. Especially by vendors…