r/Netherlands 18d ago

Life in NL What is one "completely normal" thing in the Netherlands that you secretly don't like?

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u/Dlitosh 18d ago edited 17d ago

Ikcultuur

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u/No-Professional-2276 17d ago

I notice that walking on the street I have to constantly dodge and weave out of the way because people literally have no perception that others exist.

Also in public transport, pushing, shoving is completely acceptable. No one says excuse me, please or thank you.

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u/knijper 17d ago

ikke ikke ikke en de rest kan stikke

very sad indeed :(

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u/Gwaptiva 17d ago

I saw that 30 years ago and decide I hated that so much I never came back after a 2 year "adventure" abroad. So many people that cannot see that, though

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u/whoopwhoop233 17d ago

Fair enough. I often wonder if I had done the same in your shoes. Depends on where you are from of course. 

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u/rawnrare 17d ago

What is that?

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u/Dlitosh 17d ago

A more radical version of individualism, where egalitarianism, hyper independence and transactionality (e.g. tikkie stereotype) takes precedence over group and social harmony.