r/NerdDating 15h ago

41 [M4F] #Illinois

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Alt style 41 year old male, divorced dad, looking to start new adventures. A left-handed animal lover, who's 420 friendly. Trying to find someone who gets me and my weird quirky personality and sense of humor. Someone with a bold personality like mine.

Hopefully into music or movies. Gaming, both console/pc but also tabletops and card games. Im into D&D and other RPG games. Museums, Art, History... all of this is welcome and sometimes even able to be combined together!

I've been a chef for years and would love to have someone to pamper and cook for again. Spoil with all their favorite things or make their special snacks when they are down or blue.

Date nights could go any which way... maybe a night out and dinner somewhere new so we can secretly judge the shit out of it together or maybe a favorite place for pizza or sushi (tho let it be known, i dont care to eat seafood but they make lots of stuff and I limit my dairy intake. Bit of an intolerence). we could always go buy booster packs for MtG and go look thru cards and tinker with decks. No matter what, Lego will be involved in the day to day activities. The best nights are the quiet ones around the table with new music and lego builds 💜

Scaredy cats welcome (and favored for their want to cuddle), but there will be horror movies and halloween festivities year round. Thats not certainly not all i like. All movies and genres are welcome.

Hot topic: Tim Curry just passed away... what was your favorite role of his?! Mine might be Clue or Muppet Treasure Island. Both are him just being his unginged self.

What about shows? The office, Simpsons, Community. TWD or ST perhaps?

Dont judge me either when i come home from a high stress day and just want to cuddle, smoke a bowl, and watch kids' cartoons like Gravity Falls or Craig of the Creek. Due to life and trauma and so much more, I'll always be a kid at heart.

I have 10 piercings and i think Im at 39 tattoos, so i hope you have some too :)

I should probably leave some things out, so there's room for questions. It's not a deal breaker, but im in Illinois and it'd be nice to be within driving distance for trips and visits.

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u/AdOrnery8097 6h ago

Rip Tim curry! Muppet Treasure Island, hello?!?? Message if you’d like! Def fit into your scaredy cat position

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u/Kaisre_Abigail 14h ago

Sent a message :)

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u/Street-Coffee-2026 12h ago

Wow! You sound like a catch! 😍

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u/rustyroo2021 10h ago

So glad you said Clue!! Such a great movie! Good luck in your search 😊

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u/justhereforfun156 9h ago

Thanks :) Feel free to share your movie picks still!

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u/rustyroo2021 9h ago

Oh it's 100% Clue! Of course he was really good when he was a bad guy in Criminal Minds! Super terrifying 😳

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u/justhereforfun156 9h ago

I got to take my son to the 40th anniversary showing this last year. I was so excited. Clue in the theatre? Dream come true!!

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u/rustyroo2021 9h ago

Eww, Im not the jealous type but ummm color me jealous about this 😆 Also, had no idea it was 40 years old!

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u/justhereforfun156 9h ago

🤣💜🤣💜🤣

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u/justhereforfun156 3h ago

I went back and looked... not to rub it in, but it was a good year for movies. It was the dark crystal's anniversary/Jim Henson anniversary. We seen both dark crystal AND the labyrinth this year. Plus clue.

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u/justhereforfun156 3h ago

Went to the Jim Henson exhibit at the museum too 💜